"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does my professor like me or is it all in my head?

lilady806

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Hey guys =)

I'm a 3rd year college student (female) and would like some opinions on a professor (about 40 years old) since many of you may understand his body language/behavior better than me.

Throughout the semester, I noticed that he came near me a lot during lectures and would almost always come to look at my paper (sometimes more than once). I'm not a star student or anything nor am I one of those students who need "special" attention. There was also one point where he stared straight at me for more than three seconds and when he sometimes talked to other students he would look at me. During exams, I think I've felt his stares while concentrating on my test. So I would look up to make sure I'm not being paranoid and notice him quickly look the other way or to the side. All this lead me to believe that he liked me so I developed a crush on him.

But when I visited him during his office hours he seemed uninterested in making conversation with me. For instance, I would ask him questions (not personal or weird questions, but questions about his country and stuff), yet he would rarely ask questions about myself. And sometimes he would hold eye contact and other times not.

Do you guys think he may have a slight interest in me or am I just overanalyzing?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jazzman19

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You need to get a real man in your life, he is showing ZERO interest.

Hahaha on the "stare thing" during tests. I am in Graduate school....I guess ALL my female teachers liked me since they all do the same thing during lectures, etc! *faceplam*
 

lilady806

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I know it's normal for professors to watch students during tests. My point is I would feel him looking in my direction longer than he should.
 

Kevin Feng

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Oh totally, don't deceive yourself, if only you really had a "guy" talk before. I've talked to plenty of 40 year olds and quite honestly, they're just as horny as a 20 year old.

My older uncle of about 60 years old dates a 20 year girl, because his socioeconomic status allows him to. Hugh Hefner dates girls a quarter of his age.

What he's doing is fighting his social conditioning, but I can guarantee you that if he had the chance to do the hanky panky with you no strings, that he totally would.

We're here for two reasons as a species, survival and replication.

Anyway, play your cards right and I'm sure you could score your professor.

-Kevin
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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