"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Does my boss want my ****?

pingpongz

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So she messages me on msn and asks if she can have a cigerette...

While we are smoking outside shes asking me how my love life is. She said i should have no problems getting girls and she made a joke about girls who wear fake tan and 1 night stands implying that i had alot of them... which she got very embarassed about when she realised what she said...

I then asked her how her boyfriend is and she basically said that if he found out she was smoking he would go crazy at her and expects her to treat her body like a temple.

Shes pretty hot by the way and about 12 years older than me :cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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magickarl

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lol I was going to slap myself on the forehead if you were asking if a woman likes you based on asking for a cigarette.

If shes doing things like smoking when her boyfriend doesn't want her to/thinks she doesn't. I'm betting that she is willing to do some other things her boyfriend wouldn't like.

She may have just been making nice conversation because you did a nice thing like give her a smoke, but it's hard to say. What was her body language like?

All of that aside ---- DO NOT **** AROUND WITH PEOPLE YOU WORK WITH :nono:

ESPECIALLY NOT YOUR BOSS
ESPECIALLY IF YOU LIKE YOUR JOB
ESPECIALLY IF SHE ALREADY HAS A BOYFRIEND

May turn out groovy at first banging some heet older woman, who on top of things is your boss. On the downside, if co-workers find out, that may become blackmail later down the road. Or maybe her boyfriend finds out and she decides she like him better and has to break things off with you. Or maybe you somehow piss her off. The possibilities are endless, and are a great way to ruin a job.
 

shinko

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and in case you didnt MacAvoy's point

NO!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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