"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Does my boss want my ****?

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pingpongz

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So she messages me on msn and asks if she can have a cigerette...

While we are smoking outside shes asking me how my love life is. She said i should have no problems getting girls and she made a joke about girls who wear fake tan and 1 night stands implying that i had alot of them... which she got very embarassed about when she realised what she said...

I then asked her how her boyfriend is and she basically said that if he found out she was smoking he would go crazy at her and expects her to treat her body like a temple.

Shes pretty hot by the way and about 12 years older than me :cool:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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magickarl

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lol I was going to slap myself on the forehead if you were asking if a woman likes you based on asking for a cigarette.

If shes doing things like smoking when her boyfriend doesn't want her to/thinks she doesn't. I'm betting that she is willing to do some other things her boyfriend wouldn't like.

She may have just been making nice conversation because you did a nice thing like give her a smoke, but it's hard to say. What was her body language like?

All of that aside ---- DO NOT **** AROUND WITH PEOPLE YOU WORK WITH :nono:

ESPECIALLY NOT YOUR BOSS
ESPECIALLY IF YOU LIKE YOUR JOB
ESPECIALLY IF SHE ALREADY HAS A BOYFRIEND

May turn out groovy at first banging some heet older woman, who on top of things is your boss. On the downside, if co-workers find out, that may become blackmail later down the road. Or maybe her boyfriend finds out and she decides she like him better and has to break things off with you. Or maybe you somehow piss her off. The possibilities are endless, and are a great way to ruin a job.
 
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shinko

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and in case you didnt MacAvoy's point

NO!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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