"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does my boss want my ****?

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pingpongz

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So she messages me on msn and asks if she can have a cigerette...

While we are smoking outside shes asking me how my love life is. She said i should have no problems getting girls and she made a joke about girls who wear fake tan and 1 night stands implying that i had alot of them... which she got very embarassed about when she realised what she said...

I then asked her how her boyfriend is and she basically said that if he found out she was smoking he would go crazy at her and expects her to treat her body like a temple.

Shes pretty hot by the way and about 12 years older than me :cool:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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magickarl

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lol I was going to slap myself on the forehead if you were asking if a woman likes you based on asking for a cigarette.

If shes doing things like smoking when her boyfriend doesn't want her to/thinks she doesn't. I'm betting that she is willing to do some other things her boyfriend wouldn't like.

She may have just been making nice conversation because you did a nice thing like give her a smoke, but it's hard to say. What was her body language like?

All of that aside ---- DO NOT **** AROUND WITH PEOPLE YOU WORK WITH :nono:

ESPECIALLY NOT YOUR BOSS
ESPECIALLY IF YOU LIKE YOUR JOB
ESPECIALLY IF SHE ALREADY HAS A BOYFRIEND

May turn out groovy at first banging some heet older woman, who on top of things is your boss. On the downside, if co-workers find out, that may become blackmail later down the road. Or maybe her boyfriend finds out and she decides she like him better and has to break things off with you. Or maybe you somehow piss her off. The possibilities are endless, and are a great way to ruin a job.
 
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and in case you didnt MacAvoy's point

NO!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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