Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Does life actually get tougher with age for extroverted guys who value social life?

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Most guys on here, I would say the majority, would prefer a life where they are hooking up with random women, making a friend here and there, and then spending time on whatever purpose in life that they want to spend time on (usually their career and/or business).

The game changes as you get older, in high school and college, you more or less had to be that popular guy who had a ton of "friends" (acquaintances to put it lightly), did things with a larger group of people, and were judged based on your social circle. You always had that opportunity to belong to a community or a large group on campus because you were in that bubble.

While I will agree that men generally have more opportunities with women as they get older, likely due to having better game and more resources, my focus is more on the social aspect of life.

I prefer that kind of life where you have a ton of people to talk to, are constantly making a lot of new friends, going to big social get togethers that have 50+ people in them, and just having a lot of people in your life.

Does life actually get worse for guys who value that sort of stuff as we get older since we're no longer in a setting like high school or college?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'd say no, but I'm an introvert with lots of experience.

Just go out frequently, be friendly, and remember names. Talk to everyone.

That all there is to it.
 

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Why is the OP making thread after thread to not so subtly put down older guys? Female? Troll? Male feminist?
 

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You've talked about this before in your last thread. Shutting down.
 
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