"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Does life actually get tougher with age for extroverted guys who value social life?

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Most guys on here, I would say the majority, would prefer a life where they are hooking up with random women, making a friend here and there, and then spending time on whatever purpose in life that they want to spend time on (usually their career and/or business).

The game changes as you get older, in high school and college, you more or less had to be that popular guy who had a ton of "friends" (acquaintances to put it lightly), did things with a larger group of people, and were judged based on your social circle. You always had that opportunity to belong to a community or a large group on campus because you were in that bubble.

While I will agree that men generally have more opportunities with women as they get older, likely due to having better game and more resources, my focus is more on the social aspect of life.

I prefer that kind of life where you have a ton of people to talk to, are constantly making a lot of new friends, going to big social get togethers that have 50+ people in them, and just having a lot of people in your life.

Does life actually get worse for guys who value that sort of stuff as we get older since we're no longer in a setting like high school or college?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'd say no, but I'm an introvert with lots of experience.

Just go out frequently, be friendly, and remember names. Talk to everyone.

That all there is to it.
 

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Why is the OP making thread after thread to not so subtly put down older guys? Female? Troll? Male feminist?
 

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You've talked about this before in your last thread. Shutting down.
 
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