Listen_to_Olly
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- Oct 6, 2016
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Most guys on here, I would say the majority, would prefer a life where they are hooking up with random women, making a friend here and there, and then spending time on whatever purpose in life that they want to spend time on (usually their career and/or business).
The game changes as you get older, in high school and college, you more or less had to be that popular guy who had a ton of "friends" (acquaintances to put it lightly), did things with a larger group of people, and were judged based on your social circle. You always had that opportunity to belong to a community or a large group on campus because you were in that bubble.
While I will agree that men generally have more opportunities with women as they get older, likely due to having better game and more resources, my focus is more on the social aspect of life.
I prefer that kind of life where you have a ton of people to talk to, are constantly making a lot of new friends, going to big social get togethers that have 50+ people in them, and just having a lot of people in your life.
Does life actually get worse for guys who value that sort of stuff as we get older since we're no longer in a setting like high school or college?
The game changes as you get older, in high school and college, you more or less had to be that popular guy who had a ton of "friends" (acquaintances to put it lightly), did things with a larger group of people, and were judged based on your social circle. You always had that opportunity to belong to a community or a large group on campus because you were in that bubble.
While I will agree that men generally have more opportunities with women as they get older, likely due to having better game and more resources, my focus is more on the social aspect of life.
I prefer that kind of life where you have a ton of people to talk to, are constantly making a lot of new friends, going to big social get togethers that have 50+ people in them, and just having a lot of people in your life.
Does life actually get worse for guys who value that sort of stuff as we get older since we're no longer in a setting like high school or college?
