"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Does life actually get tougher with age for extroverted guys who value social life?

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Most guys on here, I would say the majority, would prefer a life where they are hooking up with random women, making a friend here and there, and then spending time on whatever purpose in life that they want to spend time on (usually their career and/or business).

The game changes as you get older, in high school and college, you more or less had to be that popular guy who had a ton of "friends" (acquaintances to put it lightly), did things with a larger group of people, and were judged based on your social circle. You always had that opportunity to belong to a community or a large group on campus because you were in that bubble.

While I will agree that men generally have more opportunities with women as they get older, likely due to having better game and more resources, my focus is more on the social aspect of life.

I prefer that kind of life where you have a ton of people to talk to, are constantly making a lot of new friends, going to big social get togethers that have 50+ people in them, and just having a lot of people in your life.

Does life actually get worse for guys who value that sort of stuff as we get older since we're no longer in a setting like high school or college?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd say no, but I'm an introvert with lots of experience.

Just go out frequently, be friendly, and remember names. Talk to everyone.

That all there is to it.
 

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Why is the OP making thread after thread to not so subtly put down older guys? Female? Troll? Male feminist?
 

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You've talked about this before in your last thread. Shutting down.
 
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