"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does learning Martial arts made you look better

evan12

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I was looking for a way to look more alpha and I thought learning martial arts will help , any experience with that ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Demonicale

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I would say "yes" it would, let me try to explain this.

it makes you "look good" in the sense of not actually by "looks" .. but by the fact you "feel" more "confident" and the way you "carry yourself" will change,hence this making you seem more attractive.

just as going to the gym, it gives you confidence which creates and aura.this makes sense to me and i hope everyone else get's what i mean by this aswell? lol
 

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Why don't you just try it and if you enjoy it then carry on?

If you're not passionate about something then you won't be dedicated enough to it anyway. Who cares about looking "alpha", women like a guy who is passionate about something, so anything along the lines of sport/dance/martial arts even music/arts etc is gonna attract women, just different types.

Live your life by what makes you feel enjoyment, and the positivity will come, yes including women.
 

Who Dares Win

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Demonicale said:
I would say "yes" it would, let me try to explain this.

it makes you "look good" in the sense of not actually by "looks" .. but by the fact you "feel" more "confident" and the way you "carry yourself" will change,hence this making you seem more attractive.

just as going to the gym, it gives you confidence which creates and aura.this makes sense to me and i hope everyone else get's what i mean by this aswell? lol
True, just like you sense from aura a successful guy you can also sense a good guy whos nonetheless able to kick some serious ass.
It gives you an aura of manliness much more than the gym as long as its a serious martial art, not something women usually do like thai chi or karate.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No. Learning martial arts and exercising makes you look worse....
 

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Ah, evan12 san.

Sensei judge nismo knows that martiar arts is good for the sour san. :)

To rook better evan-san, go to the gym and pump the weights. :cheer:

Do martiar arts for you and onry you evan12 san. :woo:

Don't do this stuff for the sore sake of getting raid. :yes:

Go to the gym, eat right, drink rots of water, I'm tarking at reast one garron of it. Eat prenty of fruits and vegetabares. Arways be carefur. Find a regimen that works for you, as everybody's different. That's what it's arr about evan12 san. That's my ruring. :yes:

Case crosed. Enjoy yourserf. :rockon:
 

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Demonicale said:
I would say "yes" it would, let me try to explain this.

it makes you "look good" in the sense of not actually by "looks" .. but by the fact you "feel" more "confident" and the way you "carry yourself" will change,hence this making you seem more attractive.

just as going to the gym, it gives you confidence which creates and aura.this makes sense to me and i hope everyone else get's what i mean by this aswell? lol
yeah that is what I meant , it is not about make me look better but make me look more manly , I already go to gym and play sport , but I like to have a personality of worrier so I though may be marital arts will do the trick and yes I loved to learn martial arts but I dont have enough time
 
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