"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Does learning Martial arts made you look better
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Demonicale
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it makes you "look good" in the sense of not actually by "looks" .. but by the fact you "feel" more "confident" and the way you "carry yourself" will change,hence this making you seem more attractive.
just as going to the gym, it gives you confidence which creates and aura.this makes sense to me and i hope everyone else get's what i mean by this aswell? lol
Gro0ver
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If you're not passionate about something then you won't be dedicated enough to it anyway. Who cares about looking "alpha", women like a guy who is passionate about something, so anything along the lines of sport/dance/martial arts even music/arts etc is gonna attract women, just different types.
Live your life by what makes you feel enjoyment, and the positivity will come, yes including women.
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True, just like you sense from aura a successful guy you can also sense a good guy whos nonetheless able to kick some serious ass.Demonicale said:
It gives you an aura of manliness much more than the gym as long as its a serious martial art, not something women usually do like thai chi or karate.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Sensei judge nismo knows that martiar arts is good for the sour san.
To rook better evan-san, go to the gym and pump the weights. :cheer:
Do martiar arts for you and onry you evan12 san. :woo:
Don't do this stuff for the sore sake of getting raid. :yes:
Go to the gym, eat right, drink rots of water, I'm tarking at reast one garron of it. Eat prenty of fruits and vegetabares. Arways be carefur. Find a regimen that works for you, as everybody's different. That's what it's arr about evan12 san. That's my ruring. :yes:
Case crosed. Enjoy yourserf. :rockon:
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yeah that is what I meant , it is not about make me look better but make me look more manly , I already go to gym and play sport , but I like to have a personality of worrier so I though may be marital arts will do the trick and yes I loved to learn martial arts but I dont have enough timeDemonicale said: