Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
True, just like you sense from aura a successful guy you can also sense a good guy whos nonetheless able to kick some serious ass.Demonicale said:I would say "yes" it would, let me try to explain this.
it makes you "look good" in the sense of not actually by "looks" .. but by the fact you "feel" more "confident" and the way you "carry yourself" will change,hence this making you seem more attractive.
just as going to the gym, it gives you confidence which creates and aura.this makes sense to me and i hope everyone else get's what i mean by this aswell? lol
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
yeah that is what I meant , it is not about make me look better but make me look more manly , I already go to gym and play sport , but I like to have a personality of worrier so I though may be marital arts will do the trick and yes I loved to learn martial arts but I dont have enough timeDemonicale said:I would say "yes" it would, let me try to explain this.
it makes you "look good" in the sense of not actually by "looks" .. but by the fact you "feel" more "confident" and the way you "carry yourself" will change,hence this making you seem more attractive.
just as going to the gym, it gives you confidence which creates and aura.this makes sense to me and i hope everyone else get's what i mean by this aswell? lol