Originally posted by legolas
I'm sorry to have to inform you that it DOES have to do with lack of interest. If she is pleasuring herself without you, and gets nothing in your presence, AND you never had this problem before with other girls then it is ALL about her not having much interest in you or not being turned on by you. In this case, neither of you is actually having any sex aside from the masturbating.
Ok let me give you more info.
She is pleasuring herself without me because I'm not there at those moment to pleasure her. We only see each other 3 out of 7days, sleeping together 2 nights out of 7, mostly the weekends.
She gets turned on by me, cause when we have sex she gets wet, gets the flush,... She also masturbates thinking at me.
As a side note, she has slept with ~10guys, and had an orgasm with none of them. I was the first one (only once so far) to make her have an orgasm. Like i said before, this happened when we went for 12days on a holiday, she hadn't the possibility to masturbate back then.
The reasons of her lack of having orgasm is imo:
-too much masturbating
-her feminist side that doesn't want her to orgasm with a guy (be independent, have orgasm without your guy)