I was talking to a friend of mine, and he finally got some from this girl he had been digging. He said that he's been hitting it on the regular...but that he's not coming. I was surprised by this because this hasn't been my experience. He was kind of salty about this. Is this a problem? Obviously it's not for her. I always thought that orgasm was a sign of excitement and interest. I wasn't sure how to respond except that he should be glad that he doesn't have PE. I didn't tell him that though. I wasn't sure what to say to him.