"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does it pay to be moral in life

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Does it pay to be moral in life
Morality (what's right and what's wrong) is subjective.

- To us in the US, the events of 9-11 was an immoral event, full of evil. But to millions of people in another country, the events of 9-11 was an act of God and moral.

- To us, stealing this land and renaming it the US, was an act of morality. To those we stole the land from, we are still seen today as immoral/evil-doers.

It pays to be "moral" in life, ONLY IF who you are being "moral for" firstly, defines whatever you are doing as morality and secondly, is willing to compensate you for it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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RangerMIke

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Most so called 'moral' people behave the way they do because they are expecting something in return. Or they are putting on a facade to lure you in and cut off your nuts.

Anytime I'm in a meeting with someone talking about a deal, and the guy/gal started talking about 'Jesus', and faith and goodness, my guard goes up.

Morality creates stupidity. It is nothing more than stuff we have always done, because to do otherwise might hurt us. Morality = tradition as @Tenacity says above it is subjective based on tradition. The problem with morality, and tradition, is that they become invisible barriers to experiencing new things which impedes the development of better customs.

Isn't it funny that almost anything new is automatically thought to be immoral, then over time... it's good. Radio was once 'immoral', then TV, Playboy magazine.... Time makes all things good anyway, so why do we worry about morality when one day everything we think is bad will eventually become acceptable.
 

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Probably depends on your moral compass and what you are okay with. I would say def more rewarding to work hard than breaking every rule.
I'm comfortable being a resource that rewards my client with excellence and integrity. The cheaters always get found out and their companies SUCK. The best of the best of the best work very hard, even if they only manage "smart people".
 

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Lack of a moral compass = no better than an animal,I have always thought that " MORAL RELATIVISM" was completely stupid..
 

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Most so called 'moral' people behave the way they do because they are expecting something in return. Or they are putting on a facade to lure you in and cut off your nuts.

Anytime I'm in a meeting with someone talking about a deal, and the guy/gal started talking about 'Jesus', and faith and goodness, my guard goes up.

Morality creates stupidity. It is nothing more than stuff we have always done, because to do otherwise might hurt us. Morality = tradition as @Tenacity says above it is subjective based on tradition. The problem with morality, and tradition, is that they become invisible barriers to experiencing new things which impedes the development of better customs.

Isn't it funny that almost anything new is automatically thought to be immoral, then over time... it's good. Radio was once 'immoral', then TV, Playboy magazine.... Time makes all things good anyway, so why do we worry about morality when one day everything we think is bad will eventually become acceptable.
I've never met a "devout" Christian. None of us are perfect so I hate when people try to make it seem that way. Ya feel?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ChristopherColumbus

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Most so called 'moral' people behave the way they do because they are expecting something in return. Or they are putting on a facade to lure you in and cut off your nuts.

Anytime I'm in a meeting with someone talking about a deal, and the guy/gal started talking about 'Jesus', and faith and goodness, my guard goes up.

Morality creates stupidity. It is nothing more than stuff we have always done, because to do otherwise might hurt us. Morality = tradition as @Tenacity says above it is subjective based on tradition. The problem with morality, and tradition, is that they become invisible barriers to experiencing new things which impedes the development of better customs.

Isn't it funny that almost anything new is automatically thought to be immoral, then over time... it's good. Radio was once 'immoral', then TV, Playboy magazine.... Time makes all things good anyway, so why do we worry about morality when one day everything we think is bad will eventually become acceptable.
Just as we have a rational instinct, we have a moral instinct; we are thinking what the Good Life is, and what decisions are best for arriving there. Everyday we ask ourselves what we ought to do. It's the paradox of freedom, we are free to choose, and yet there seems to be an intelligible world to which that choice is directed... in a teleological kind of way.

Morality as prescribed by society, or a cast iron theological system [Calvinism] I agree are not very moral. They are ideologies, which are horrifically deterministic.
 
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