"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does being persistent actually turn them off (HB9s and above)?

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I think they are probably fed up with guys chasing them for too long. To them, It's just desperation IMO. Not that much different.


Thoughts?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Paradox of SS:

To get women you have to use game and approach. But to get women you have to act indifferent and like you don't give a fug
 

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skinnyguy said:
Paradox of SS:

To get women you have to use game and approach. But to get women you have to act indifferent and like you don't give a fug
Not really.

If the girl finds you attractive then you have(or can) to use game and approach while acting indifferent etc. to maintain interest and all that.. If you do it on a girl that doesn't even find you attractive then you're boned.
 

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Define persistent?
Persistence at all stages. Approaching, arranging the first date and finally, escalation.


For example you approach a HB9 and she completely ignores your existence. Or hell, some of them even scream at you, which I shrug it off with giggling or asking her to stop crying. Do you look like a fool if you keep talking to her?
 

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Well then I have to lower my standards personally. Probably down to HB4-5s. I thought being a tad stubborn during the approach would be OK. Should I give up chasing the hot ones? This is how I look, sort of :
http://www.spainisculture.com/export/sites/cultura/multimedia/galerias/autores/antonio_banderas_elmundo.jpg


However I'm really short, around 170cm. Also my voice and speakings sounds whiny and weird, IE I feel a little stuck sometimes not knowing what to say.

This is how I answererd when a girl told me she had a BF:
HB8.5: I have a BF. He wouldn't be happy seeing us chatting.
Me: Oh poor girl. Only one BF? You should have 2 at least, increase your options.
HB8.5::eek:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't be fooled, they love it. The more orbiters and persistent chumps they have blowin up their phone, the happier they feel. Even if it's for a few short minutes. The more they feel like popular Hollywood starlets the better. What else do you think a girl does the bulk of her waking hours?? Calculating structural strengths of bridges on her new iPhone??
 

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VladPatton said:
Don't be fooled, they love it. The more orbiters and persistent chumps they have blowin up their phone, the happier they feel. Even if it's for a few short minutes.
Oh, I'm sure they love it. I'm sure it makes them feel happy and validated. The question should be does it make them feel attraction?

Anyway, I agree with Espi, that article that he linked to is a good one.
 

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zekko said:
The question should be does it make them feel attraction?
They could develop feelings in the long run
 
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