"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does anyone want to start a "No SoSuave" Bootcamp (Challenge)

HeyPachuco!

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Not sure how this will work, but I' haven't seen it done yet, heck, theres No Masturbation, No Contact and Dumped challenges, but no so suave challenges?

This is especially for the guys that have recently come down on alot of the newbies for asking inane questions. Less reading and more IN-FIELD is the only goal for them.

This should include even signing or logging in onto the So Suave Discussion forums. Frequent posters who pop in now and again should also apply.

4 WEEKS "NO SO SUAVE.NET" starting on March 1st, Monday. Maybe one of the Mods can make a Sticky on it?

Whose up for it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sure, I'm up for it. Seeing as I just ended things with a low interest girl I have zero reason to come here.
 

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Hold up hold up. I like your style man, but I'm cracking up at the irony. Using SoSuave to organize a NO sosuave event?
 

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Sweet so there's weekly challenges posted on the forums right?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Come back and post your response to this challenge daily. :up:
 

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lol why would the mods make a sticky saying don't come on this site for four weeks?
 

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Four weeks without SoSuave which forces people to rely on ther own understanding and instincts (which they should) instead of having them being baby walked through the WHOLE process........not a bad idea
 

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Bump.

This is especially for the users that joined arouned the same time as me last year.


No complications, all there is needed is a list of names who aren't going to be present on So Suave for atleast 4 weeks straight. No weekly objectives or nothing! Just 4 weeks solid of not seeing your own name on Threads.

Frequent posters, like AlmostThere, ALPHAROMEO etc should sign up for this. I just put it to the table since I'm going to be doing this, so wondered if anyone would like to join me doing so.

A WHOLE MONTH, all of March - no so suave. Infact, the rules should be January & Febuary 2010 posters only for the entire duration.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I need to do this more,

I love coming back and seeing threads all in bold (unread). Wow, refreshing. I've had tons of in-field experience over these weeks, theres been times I've been itching to come online and post up some field reports and some problems I ran into. Whenever I was failing or beginning to walk into anxiety, all I could think about was;

-Write up a thread on SS as soon as I get in
-What would the master dj's say or do here?
-Should I break the (my) challenge?


I've layed over 5 girls, two on the same night and a few from some bars. I even laid me a Beauty Therapist who owns here own Beautician, an absolutely PRETTY girl. I used my instincts here. I couldn't of done it without help from some of the seasoned vets knowledge and understanding of the game who paved the way. You guys need a medal or some sort of honourable payment man, this stuff really changes you.
 
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