"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Does anyone want to start a "No SoSuave" Bootcamp (Challenge)

HeyPachuco!

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Not sure how this will work, but I' haven't seen it done yet, heck, theres No Masturbation, No Contact and Dumped challenges, but no so suave challenges?

This is especially for the guys that have recently come down on alot of the newbies for asking inane questions. Less reading and more IN-FIELD is the only goal for them.

This should include even signing or logging in onto the So Suave Discussion forums. Frequent posters who pop in now and again should also apply.

4 WEEKS "NO SO SUAVE.NET" starting on March 1st, Monday. Maybe one of the Mods can make a Sticky on it?

Whose up for it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sure, I'm up for it. Seeing as I just ended things with a low interest girl I have zero reason to come here.
 

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Hold up hold up. I like your style man, but I'm cracking up at the irony. Using SoSuave to organize a NO sosuave event?
 

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Sweet so there's weekly challenges posted on the forums right?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Come back and post your response to this challenge daily. :up:
 

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lol why would the mods make a sticky saying don't come on this site for four weeks?
 

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Four weeks without SoSuave which forces people to rely on ther own understanding and instincts (which they should) instead of having them being baby walked through the WHOLE process........not a bad idea
 

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Bump.

This is especially for the users that joined arouned the same time as me last year.


No complications, all there is needed is a list of names who aren't going to be present on So Suave for atleast 4 weeks straight. No weekly objectives or nothing! Just 4 weeks solid of not seeing your own name on Threads.

Frequent posters, like AlmostThere, ALPHAROMEO etc should sign up for this. I just put it to the table since I'm going to be doing this, so wondered if anyone would like to join me doing so.

A WHOLE MONTH, all of March - no so suave. Infact, the rules should be January & Febuary 2010 posters only for the entire duration.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HeyPachuco!

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I need to do this more,

I love coming back and seeing threads all in bold (unread). Wow, refreshing. I've had tons of in-field experience over these weeks, theres been times I've been itching to come online and post up some field reports and some problems I ran into. Whenever I was failing or beginning to walk into anxiety, all I could think about was;

-Write up a thread on SS as soon as I get in
-What would the master dj's say or do here?
-Should I break the (my) challenge?


I've layed over 5 girls, two on the same night and a few from some bars. I even laid me a Beauty Therapist who owns here own Beautician, an absolutely PRETTY girl. I used my instincts here. I couldn't of done it without help from some of the seasoned vets knowledge and understanding of the game who paved the way. You guys need a medal or some sort of honourable payment man, this stuff really changes you.
 
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