“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Does anyone want to start a "No SoSuave" Bootcamp (Challenge)

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HeyPachuco!

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Not sure how this will work, but I' haven't seen it done yet, heck, theres No Masturbation, No Contact and Dumped challenges, but no so suave challenges?

This is especially for the guys that have recently come down on alot of the newbies for asking inane questions. Less reading and more IN-FIELD is the only goal for them.

This should include even signing or logging in onto the So Suave Discussion forums. Frequent posters who pop in now and again should also apply.

4 WEEKS "NO SO SUAVE.NET" starting on March 1st, Monday. Maybe one of the Mods can make a Sticky on it?

Whose up for it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sure, I'm up for it. Seeing as I just ended things with a low interest girl I have zero reason to come here.
 
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Hold up hold up. I like your style man, but I'm cracking up at the irony. Using SoSuave to organize a NO sosuave event?
 
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Sweet so there's weekly challenges posted on the forums right?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Come back and post your response to this challenge daily. :up:
 
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lol why would the mods make a sticky saying don't come on this site for four weeks?
 
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Four weeks without SoSuave which forces people to rely on ther own understanding and instincts (which they should) instead of having them being baby walked through the WHOLE process........not a bad idea
 
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Bump.

This is especially for the users that joined arouned the same time as me last year.


No complications, all there is needed is a list of names who aren't going to be present on So Suave for atleast 4 weeks straight. No weekly objectives or nothing! Just 4 weeks solid of not seeing your own name on Threads.

Frequent posters, like AlmostThere, ALPHAROMEO etc should sign up for this. I just put it to the table since I'm going to be doing this, so wondered if anyone would like to join me doing so.

A WHOLE MONTH, all of March - no so suave. Infact, the rules should be January & Febuary 2010 posters only for the entire duration.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I need to do this more,

I love coming back and seeing threads all in bold (unread). Wow, refreshing. I've had tons of in-field experience over these weeks, theres been times I've been itching to come online and post up some field reports and some problems I ran into. Whenever I was failing or beginning to walk into anxiety, all I could think about was;

-Write up a thread on SS as soon as I get in
-What would the master dj's say or do here?
-Should I break the (my) challenge?


I've layed over 5 girls, two on the same night and a few from some bars. I even laid me a Beauty Therapist who owns here own Beautician, an absolutely PRETTY girl. I used my instincts here. I couldn't of done it without help from some of the seasoned vets knowledge and understanding of the game who paved the way. You guys need a medal or some sort of honourable payment man, this stuff really changes you.
 
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