Does anyone want to get married here???

[Dhoulmagus]

No, unless she was rich

 

[JohnChops]

It's complacency to me...there's something to be said about pushing yourself to constantly be more than what's expected.

For Gen-Y, I see only three categories of marriages that could actually end up truly working:

1)People who grew up together, experienced their lives together, and want to continue living together.

2)The unexplainable urge to be with someone that's felt from both sides equally...

3)People who share the same goals or priorities who can help each other achieve what they want.

...#s 1 and 3 are out for me, and #2 is the only thing that keeps the door open; I felt a little of this very briefly years ago, and it's something that you simply can't relate to unless you've been there yourself...I'm actually convinced that the average couple isn't even in the same stratosphere as #2, and that the average person doesn't know that particular feeling even exists or gets to experience it at all during their lifetime. It's a benchmark for sure to anybody who's been there.

I can relate and agree to this. I see it happening, there is always room for speculation though.

 

[EvilSpirit22]

Is it just me or are you all tired of her bull**** posts? Moderator please ban her. We don't want a girl penetrating our forum and having exactly opposite views about our way of living.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

She said let's get a scientist or theorist to figure out why marriages don't work out. Sweetie sorry to burst your bubble, but marriage is a made up construct sort of like taking off your hat when the national anthem comes on, stuff like that. Marriage is made up, and not natural.....and humans are not meant to be monogamous

 

[jurry]

humans are not meant to be monogamous

The case for humans not being meant for monogamy is not any more convincing than monogamy itself from what I can tell. The problem in both cases seems to be the predetermination that you will behave in a certain way at some point in the future.

 

[nismo-4]

F**k marriage!

As soon as the man says I do, she says I don't. And the woman you marry is not the same as the one you divorce.

I fear divorce because of all the losses a man can get. So I'm never getting married.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

F**k marriage!

As soon as the man says I do, she says I don't. And the woman you marry is not the same as the one you divorce.

I fear divorce because of all the losses a man can get. So I'm never getting married.

Great advice but any thoughts on banning this chick? You know, just sayin.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=2213097&postcount=25

 

[hop On hop Off]

I think OP raised valid points.

Peaks&Valleys should be banned! People should be able to write what they think without the fear of retribution. They should not be worried about what others say, or having the fear of being banned.

I nominate P&V be banned. I have seen P&V using this tactic on several posters. It intimidates other posters. I hope to see people who can help and encourage orhers.

When someone has a question or another view. We ought help and understand, making this board a better place.

 

[62Telecaster]

I can relate and agree to this. I see it happening, there is always room for speculation though.

So many people just blindly go for it though...I don't think it's so much about shunning marriage as a no-win concept for men, as it is that modern society just needs to rethink things a bit and realize that the world has changed a lot. I'm 100% fine with living single if I never meet the right person..."marriage" itself will never make a person happy, it has to come from something uniquely tied directly to the two individuals for it to work.

 

[Desdinova]

For Gen-Y, I see only three categories of marriages that could actually end up truly working:

1)People who grew up together, experienced their lives together, and want to continue living together.

IMO, this is the only option I can see. I wrote on my blog about something called the "high score list". Essentially, women can only truly love men from her earliest dating encounters. When women are looking for "the one", this is when/where they need to look because they don't find any true deep satisfaction when they date later in life.

There's a reason that many cultures embraced the idea of women marrying young... Because it WORKS to keep them attached. The problem we have in western society is that women generally aren't really mature until age 23-27, but to get on a woman's high score list, you need to date her earlier than that. The problem is they're either legally too young, or they're in their drunken, stoned party phase.

Your best bet? Find a woman who's extremely low mileage in the 23-27 age bracket, or date younger women. You may have to wait until they're done partying, or break up and then return to them at a later date.

Marrying a woman who's had her fulfilment of c0ck in her earlier years will reduce your likeliness of becoming a significant part of her internal high score list.

 

[stevo]

Marrying a woman who's had her fulfilment of c0ck in her earlier years will reduce your likeliness of becoming a significant part of her internal high score list.

Then comes the contrary that a woman who hasn't had her fulfillment of corks will continue to wonder the what-if's and almost go searching for it but a woman who's had her fair share of slotty years have a higher chance of understanding "it's all the same".

Most impact is done when her virginity is taken, A woman who's in friendly terms with that first dude holds a stronger connection with him than what she might have with her spouse.

A woman who's in friendly terms with the first dude to fcuk her really well holds a stronger connection with him than what she might have with her spouse.

If you get lucky to be either of both dudes to a woman old enough (21 - 27), know the amount of power you have over her and consider keeping her.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I don't have a fear of marriage, I just think its not necessary. If I meet a woman and we click and spend many years together as lovers and friends and decided to have kids then fine. We can have kids and move in together and take care of our family. Marriage is a slowly deteriorating tradition that was made up to stimulate the economy. I see this website is still not helping some of the posters here in SOME aspects. No fear of marriage I just think its a primitive tradition, like opening a beer and cheering one another.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

What I wanted to go backpacking across America and the chick I married didn't agree....we would be parasitic to each other, i'm good I need my freedom. If you get lonely you are almost always a emotional boring person.

 

[zekko]

Most girls I know, including me, do appreciate men.

Sure they appreciate men. A lot of men. They appreciate this man's c0ck, and that man's c0ck, and that other man's c0ck, and that man over there's c0ck, etc., etc. That's not a good reason to marry them, however.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Marriage has become a sick, twisted joke. There is absolutely no upside to marriage for a man in today's world. All he does by getting married is set himself up to be abandoned, divorced, bankrupted, and made to pay for the privilege of visitation with the children the state has stolen from him. When your spouse can walk out of your marriage for no reason whatsoever at any time, taking your children with her, then what's the point of bothering with it?

I think the realization is finally sinking in that marriage sucks for men too, but back in yesteryear, being married meant a career job, good standing in society, and a couple of kids you could raise to be good citizens but now that has gone, there is no incentive left for men to do any of that and plenty of reasons not to marry.

The great hoax that men need women more than men is finally being shattered and that's why the screws are being tightened. Men are predominantly the sex that keeps civilization going and when they stop working to do that, it all falls apart.

Women are now seen as liabilities so it's like we have gone full circle to where a dowry is needed in order for a man to 'sell' his daughter to some guy so he doesn't financially depend on him for life as she grows into an old spinster. The only difference is that we have BDG to pick up that tab now, but that only works when men are working hard to pay taxes


70% of divorces are initiated by women, 60% of women cheat, 90% of cheat women feel no remorse because they felt entitled to it... Need I continue? Statistically, they (worthless women) are very much the majority, the vast majority in fact.



Pump and Dump ...........my life motto.

 

[captain55]

Then comes the contrary that a woman who hasn't had her fulfillment of corks will continue to wonder the what-if's and almost go searching for it but a woman who's had her fair share of slotty years have a higher chance of understanding "it's all the same".

Most impact is done when her virginity is taken, A woman who's in friendly terms with that first dude holds a stronger connection with him than what she might have with her spouse.

A woman who's in friendly terms with the first dude to fcuk her really well holds a stronger connection with him than what she might have with her spouse.

If you get lucky to be either of both dudes to a woman old enough (21 - 27), know the amount of power you have over her and consider keeping her.

This. Too bad its almost impossible to find a chick over 18 who hasn't lost her virginity yet though.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Is it just me or are you all tired of her bull**** posts? Moderator please ban her. We don't want a girl penetrating our forum and having exactly opposite views about our way of living.

We can only ban for breaking the rules and not for saying things we don't like.

They always end up hanging themselves. Patience, grasshopper. She will not survive.