"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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does anyone know how to deal with stubborn hair?

BongDuy

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I usually get a fo hawk ( mohawk without the back being spiked up) and my sides are cut to a 1 with clippers. i noticed that as weeks go by, the hair on the side of my head would actually go parallel to the ground ( they stick out). this has been something ive had for years, but im tired of it. it makes me look goofy

when i wake up, my hair is usually completely flat on the side of my head, and it looks awesome, plus i can probably keep growing my hair for a few more weeks, and save some money ( college student here)


Is there anyway i can tame this hair of mine? I have all of december off, i was thinking of wearing a hat. has anyone had a similiar problem?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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You'll have to keep the sides cut almost weekly, by the sounds of it. It can grow just enough in that time to behave the way you're describing.
 

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My hair sucks. It's not curly enough to do anything with it, and it's not straight enough to do anything with it. It's right in the middle. The way I see it, I've got two options: grow it long or shave it off. I grew it long and it's much more manageable.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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