"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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does anyone know how to deal with stubborn hair?

BongDuy

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I usually get a fo hawk ( mohawk without the back being spiked up) and my sides are cut to a 1 with clippers. i noticed that as weeks go by, the hair on the side of my head would actually go parallel to the ground ( they stick out). this has been something ive had for years, but im tired of it. it makes me look goofy

when i wake up, my hair is usually completely flat on the side of my head, and it looks awesome, plus i can probably keep growing my hair for a few more weeks, and save some money ( college student here)


Is there anyway i can tame this hair of mine? I have all of december off, i was thinking of wearing a hat. has anyone had a similiar problem?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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You'll have to keep the sides cut almost weekly, by the sounds of it. It can grow just enough in that time to behave the way you're describing.
 

Desdinova

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My hair sucks. It's not curly enough to do anything with it, and it's not straight enough to do anything with it. It's right in the middle. The way I see it, I've got two options: grow it long or shave it off. I grew it long and it's much more manageable.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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