"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does Anyone Journal?

Solomon

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I use to write journals (including field reports)
It's crazy to read something you wrote 15 years ago, If you think about it, life happens fast, and even my thought process, things that I valued when I was younger etc. Has completely changed. I recently started journaling again as its also a great way to write my thoughts I've also done some video journals,

anyway just curious if anyone else did this
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Not frequently but having done in the past, without question a really stimulative , helpful process.
 

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A while back I found a notebook of my thoughts when I was going thru my divorce years ago. I read 5 lines of that schit and about threw up. What a clueless dumb fuhk I was. Lol.

I shredded that garbage instantly.

Thank God for SoSuave.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've kept a journal since I was 20. It's a lot of work, as I'm pretty detailed and often go into more description than is practical, but I do enjoy it. I used to write in a notebook, but then started doing it on my computer. It's much easier to edit that way, and I can also put pictures in it.

I can't remember half of what I do in a year if I don't write it down, and it seems like a shame to forget so much of what I experience, so that's why I do it.
 
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