"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does Anyone Journal?

Solomon

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I use to write journals (including field reports)
It's crazy to read something you wrote 15 years ago, If you think about it, life happens fast, and even my thought process, things that I valued when I was younger etc. Has completely changed. I recently started journaling again as its also a great way to write my thoughts I've also done some video journals,

anyway just curious if anyone else did this
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Not frequently but having done in the past, without question a really stimulative , helpful process.
 
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A while back I found a notebook of my thoughts when I was going thru my divorce years ago. I read 5 lines of that schit and about threw up. What a clueless dumb fuhk I was. Lol.

I shredded that garbage instantly.

Thank God for SoSuave.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've kept a journal since I was 20. It's a lot of work, as I'm pretty detailed and often go into more description than is practical, but I do enjoy it. I used to write in a notebook, but then started doing it on my computer. It's much easier to edit that way, and I can also put pictures in it.

I can't remember half of what I do in a year if I don't write it down, and it seems like a shame to forget so much of what I experience, so that's why I do it.
 
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