"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Does Anyone Journal?

Solomon

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I use to write journals (including field reports)
It's crazy to read something you wrote 15 years ago, If you think about it, life happens fast, and even my thought process, things that I valued when I was younger etc. Has completely changed. I recently started journaling again as its also a great way to write my thoughts I've also done some video journals,

anyway just curious if anyone else did this
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Divorced w 3

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Not frequently but having done in the past, without question a really stimulative , helpful process.
 

The Duke

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A while back I found a notebook of my thoughts when I was going thru my divorce years ago. I read 5 lines of that schit and about threw up. What a clueless dumb fuhk I was. Lol.

I shredded that garbage instantly.

Thank God for SoSuave.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've kept a journal since I was 20. It's a lot of work, as I'm pretty detailed and often go into more description than is practical, but I do enjoy it. I used to write in a notebook, but then started doing it on my computer. It's much easier to edit that way, and I can also put pictures in it.

I can't remember half of what I do in a year if I don't write it down, and it seems like a shame to forget so much of what I experience, so that's why I do it.
 
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