She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DanZy said:No goundra has no fitness knowledge other than the 4 hour body. On paper it looks good but in the real world this routine is ineffective for the natural lifter. Dorian Yates started out with 5x5 and similar routines. You have to remember that Mentzer and his brother (who trained with him) both died in their 40's due to heart problems probably aggravated by a heavy use of anabolics.
Intensity is very important when it comes to lifting but it's not the only factor. Slow lifting is ineffective, it doesn't actually work the muscles in the way people claim.
sorry but you lack experience, regardless of what you have read or what your age is. you havent been doing this for enough time to really experiment with different strategies and routines over the years. there are tons of different ways to workout and many of them work well, and you can mix different philosophies and techniques from different sources to make your own workouts. mike mentzers information has its place and has worked well for many people for many years. all of a sudden its all invalid cause someone with 3 years of experience said so?DanZy said:I've been lifting for 3 years and read a **** ton of stuff the likes of Martin Berkhan, Lyle McDonald, Brad Pilon, Alan Aragon and Layne Norton. Age has nothing to do with it
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You haven't understood my point at all. Intensity is a highly important component of hypertrophy and Mentzer is correct in that thus this knowledge should be incorporated into your workouts, however the rest of it isn't. I'm all for mixing the best together to get the best results. It's not all invalid, though much of it was proven to be years ago, the focus on intensity is good.foreverAFC said:sorry but you lack experience, regardless of what you have read or what your age is. you havent been doing this for enough time to really experiment with different strategies and routines over the years. there are tons of different ways to workout and many of them work well, and you can mix different philosophies and techniques from different sources to make your own workouts. mike mentzers information has its place and has worked well for many people for many years. all of a sudden its all invalid cause someone with 3 years of experience said so?