You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DanZy said:No goundra has no fitness knowledge other than the 4 hour body. On paper it looks good but in the real world this routine is ineffective for the natural lifter. Dorian Yates started out with 5x5 and similar routines. You have to remember that Mentzer and his brother (who trained with him) both died in their 40's due to heart problems probably aggravated by a heavy use of anabolics.
Intensity is very important when it comes to lifting but it's not the only factor. Slow lifting is ineffective, it doesn't actually work the muscles in the way people claim.
sorry but you lack experience, regardless of what you have read or what your age is. you havent been doing this for enough time to really experiment with different strategies and routines over the years. there are tons of different ways to workout and many of them work well, and you can mix different philosophies and techniques from different sources to make your own workouts. mike mentzers information has its place and has worked well for many people for many years. all of a sudden its all invalid cause someone with 3 years of experience said so?DanZy said:I've been lifting for 3 years and read a **** ton of stuff the likes of Martin Berkhan, Lyle McDonald, Brad Pilon, Alan Aragon and Layne Norton. Age has nothing to do with it
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You haven't understood my point at all. Intensity is a highly important component of hypertrophy and Mentzer is correct in that thus this knowledge should be incorporated into your workouts, however the rest of it isn't. I'm all for mixing the best together to get the best results. It's not all invalid, though much of it was proven to be years ago, the focus on intensity is good.foreverAFC said:sorry but you lack experience, regardless of what you have read or what your age is. you havent been doing this for enough time to really experiment with different strategies and routines over the years. there are tons of different ways to workout and many of them work well, and you can mix different philosophies and techniques from different sources to make your own workouts. mike mentzers information has its place and has worked well for many people for many years. all of a sudden its all invalid cause someone with 3 years of experience said so?