"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does anyone have / use the "Spartan System"

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I'm trying to find a copy.

Cheers,
Mike.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Can u give at least a bit more info about it?

Is it a pickup guide? Philosophical stuff?
 

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Girl on Top.
 

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I use the Trojan system, OPEN THE GATES!
The Greek System ain't bad (anal), but as long as its done with women not men.
 

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LOL!.

The Spartan System is a Health Training Regime.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Walden
LOL!.

The Spartan System is a Health Training Regime.
Do you mean the origonal training they did? Like eating a soup from a bull's blood, being in the army from the age of 7 and wearing super simple clothes?

No, I didn't try that

Edit: I changed the to they in the first sentence
 
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Originally posted by Ice Cold
Do you mean the origonal training the did? Like eating a soup from a bull's blood, being in the army from the age of 7 and wearing super simple clothes?

No, I didn't try that
Sparta was a Greek city state not a person, maybe your confusing it with non-Spartan Spartacus. But I didn't join the army at age 7 either.
 

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Come on man, give me some credit. I'm not that ignorant

What I meant to post was:

Originally posted by Ice Cold
Do you mean the origonal training they did?
 

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Sure thing, Ice. I thought you typed wrong. I don't think anyone here does that (the army thing @ age 7) either.

However, WALDEN read this:

"About 2 in every 100 Americans are in a Spartan training camp where every day they lift weights, eat what they are given, do what they are told, and are forbidden most outside contact. In this atmosphere, the utmost importance is placed on combative prowess since all creative energies can only be directed towards bettering their martial discipline. Within this camp, there are high rates of violence and some Spartan trainees get killed. The people continually work out to maintain a combat physique which will give them respect and the capacity to defend themselves from their enemies while their weaker enemies learn to harness topical weapons in order to compete against their brute force foes."
Mike Walden, if you wan't to join this Spartan training camp, just fly to the United States, kill someone, and before you know it they'll put you in a prison... ehh, Spartan camp.

:)
 

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It's comedians week on Sosuave...

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A friend of mine took the spartan health regime, he quite liked it. It seems to focus on nutrition and compound weight exercises, i.e squats, pullups and chinups, shoulder press etc.
 

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I still have no idea what you people are talking about

Anybody cares enough to post a link to webpage?
 

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I am extremely sceptical

First of all, he makes some outrageous claims like this:

Following the dietary principles will let you lose fat fast and easily without going hungry or losing muscle size.
Maybe if he drugs you up, you won't feel hunger


Then, when you lose 25 kilos in a month (as most of his clients did), you'll lose about 10 kilos of muscle. When you have a really small bf, your immune systen is weakened significantly. You're more succeptible to colds and esp tuberculosis.

I don't particularly want that.

To be super ripped is just as bad for your health as to be obese.

In my opinion, the perfect body is one that's flexible, cardio conditioned and has good amount of muscle. Cover that with a finger-thick layer of fat and you're perfect :)

But that's just me, and I could be wrong...
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold

When you have a really small bf, your immune systen is weakened significantly. You're more succeptible to colds and esp tuberculosis.

I don't particularly want that.

To be super ripped is just as bad for your health as to be obese.

In my opinion, the perfect body is one that's flexible, cardio conditioned and has good amount of muscle. Cover that with a finger-thick layer of fat and you're perfect :)

But that's just me, and I could be wrong...
Ice, when you say 'super ripped,' how low of a BF% do you have in mind? Are we talkin something extreme, along the lines of 5%, or something more common in the world of amateur bodybuilding, such as 8-9%?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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They didn't give exact body fat % because they didn't measure it. Basically the study just noted that visibly chunky people had 10 times less chances to get TB

I think they took the layer of fat on the stomach as the control variable.

But it makes sence, right? If you have some fat deposits, you can replace cell membranes much more easily in case an infection occurs.

BTW: my mantoy confirms it. I was quite skinny during childhood and it was always positive. Now I gained some weight, tested last month and it's so totally negative, there's not a single spot :)
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
I am extremely sceptical

First of all, he makes some outrageous claims like this:



Maybe if he drugs you up, you won't feel hunger


Then, when you lose 25 kilos in a month (as most of his clients did), you'll lose about 10 kilos of muscle. When you have a really small bf, your immune systen is weakened significantly. You're more succeptible to colds and esp tuberculosis.

I don't particularly want that.

To be super ripped is just as bad for your health as to be obese.

In my opinion, the perfect body is one that's flexible, cardio conditioned and has good amount of muscle. Cover that with a finger-thick layer of fat and you're perfect :)

But that's just me, and I could be wrong...
Actually I agree. Too much (obese) or too little (skinny) is bad.
 
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