"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Soooo...
I have a problem and I'm not sure if its wierd or not, but hopefully someone here can help me out. I'll try not to gross anyone out best i can.
I've been going out with this chick, and we've made out and I've touched her, and she's givin me a handjob twice.
But the problem is, the handjob wasnt really doing too much for me. I was horny and all but i wasnt going to ***. Part of the problem is (I'm sorry this is kind of gross) it was too sweaty and all so there was too much friction going on, but not much feeling.
I'm sorry if this grosses anyone out but its kind of a problem, because i've gotten her 3 times (once thru clothes, twice otherwise) but she still has yet to get me.
Can anyone help?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The only way she will know to do something different, is if you tell her.

I've had some women treating my **** like a bicycle pump, its all in showing / teaching them how to do it.
 
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Yeah dude... girls suck at handjobs. Especially in high school.

If she's down to give you handjobs, I'm willing to bet that with enough game you could get her to give you head.

Just put your hands on her shoulders and LIGHTLY push her down while pushing your hips towards her face. Sounds weird, but if she doesn't get the hint then straight up ask her.

And part of a healthy relationship is being able to talk. If handjobs aren't working out, then tell her/help her out.

The sweaty thing isn't gross... that just means your girl is doing a good job beforehand, right? :up:
 
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Sounds like she's gripping ya too hard. Ask her to loosen up and not work in a predictable pattern. Get her to user her imagination and be a bit more creative.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Grab some KY Jelly.
 
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