"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does anyone else get this problem

Buick

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Soooo...
I have a problem and I'm not sure if its wierd or not, but hopefully someone here can help me out. I'll try not to gross anyone out best i can.
I've been going out with this chick, and we've made out and I've touched her, and she's givin me a handjob twice.
But the problem is, the handjob wasnt really doing too much for me. I was horny and all but i wasnt going to ***. Part of the problem is (I'm sorry this is kind of gross) it was too sweaty and all so there was too much friction going on, but not much feeling.
I'm sorry if this grosses anyone out but its kind of a problem, because i've gotten her 3 times (once thru clothes, twice otherwise) but she still has yet to get me.
Can anyone help?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sir Juanalot

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The only way she will know to do something different, is if you tell her.

I've had some women treating my **** like a bicycle pump, its all in showing / teaching them how to do it.
 

Supremo

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Yeah dude... girls suck at handjobs. Especially in high school.

If she's down to give you handjobs, I'm willing to bet that with enough game you could get her to give you head.

Just put your hands on her shoulders and LIGHTLY push her down while pushing your hips towards her face. Sounds weird, but if she doesn't get the hint then straight up ask her.

And part of a healthy relationship is being able to talk. If handjobs aren't working out, then tell her/help her out.

The sweaty thing isn't gross... that just means your girl is doing a good job beforehand, right? :up:
 

ItWasntMe

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Sounds like she's gripping ya too hard. Ask her to loosen up and not work in a predictable pattern. Get her to user her imagination and be a bit more creative.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Grab some KY Jelly.
 
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