"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does anyone else find attractive women easier to deal with than average women?

Pierce Manhammer

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It’s allegory to this famous photo, the thousand yard stare:

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A soldier that has seen it all, a thousand yards is the maximum effective range of a well handled M1 Garand rifle carried by the Allies in WW2, chambered in 30-06.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zekko

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Been on a lot of dates recently, and I can definitively say that the attractive women (7-8.5s) were more feminine, submissive, agreeable, easier to impress, pleasant to be around, etc. The 5-7s (mid) were more disagreeable, bitter, and all of them went fvcking nowhere and left a bad taste in my mouth. Looking back, I think it's always been like this.
This is an old theme on this board, and I don't think anyone has refuted it. I always thought the explanation was that the most attractive women have had the most positive experiences with men. Men have treated them very well over the years, so they are naturally more receptive when they meet another one. As I like to put it, "Oh look, another guy to worship me".
 

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I wouldn't say "more attractive" women.

Younger women for sure. They are much much easier than older women.
I agree with this. Younger chicks are much easier and not so masculine/jaded like older ones.

That being said, you have to be careful with the young ones too. Many are drunk on the attention they get online and in the real world. Many have been smashed by Tyrone, passed around and have mental health issues.
 

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It’s allegory to this famous photo, the thousand yard stare:

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A soldier that has seen it all, a thousand yards is the maximum effective range of a well handled M1 Garand rifle carried by the Allies in WW2, chambered in 30-06.
The analogy for a woman who has taken too many c0cks is the "thousand c0ck stare" :rofl:
 

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No. My GF literally gets stopped on the street & gets compliments. She’s been pretty her whole life and is a ‘princess’. Less attractive woman are easier to deal with.
Let me clarify. Initially, more attractive women sre often super nice. Like most Chads. However. Once in a relationship, I’ve found most very attractive women are used to being treated as special, and expect that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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