"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does anyone else find attractive women easier to deal with than average women?

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It’s allegory to this famous photo, the thousand yard stare:

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A soldier that has seen it all, a thousand yards is the maximum effective range of a well handled M1 Garand rifle carried by the Allies in WW2, chambered in 30-06.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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zekko

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Been on a lot of dates recently, and I can definitively say that the attractive women (7-8.5s) were more feminine, submissive, agreeable, easier to impress, pleasant to be around, etc. The 5-7s (mid) were more disagreeable, bitter, and all of them went fvcking nowhere and left a bad taste in my mouth. Looking back, I think it's always been like this.
This is an old theme on this board, and I don't think anyone has refuted it. I always thought the explanation was that the most attractive women have had the most positive experiences with men. Men have treated them very well over the years, so they are naturally more receptive when they meet another one. As I like to put it, "Oh look, another guy to worship me".
 

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I wouldn't say "more attractive" women.

Younger women for sure. They are much much easier than older women.
I agree with this. Younger chicks are much easier and not so masculine/jaded like older ones.

That being said, you have to be careful with the young ones too. Many are drunk on the attention they get online and in the real world. Many have been smashed by Tyrone, passed around and have mental health issues.
 

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It’s allegory to this famous photo, the thousand yard stare:

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A soldier that has seen it all, a thousand yards is the maximum effective range of a well handled M1 Garand rifle carried by the Allies in WW2, chambered in 30-06.
The analogy for a woman who has taken too many c0cks is the "thousand c0ck stare" :rofl:
 

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No. My GF literally gets stopped on the street & gets compliments. She’s been pretty her whole life and is a ‘princess’. Less attractive woman are easier to deal with.
Let me clarify. Initially, more attractive women sre often super nice. Like most Chads. However. Once in a relationship, I’ve found most very attractive women are used to being treated as special, and expect that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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