"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does anyone else find attractive women easier to deal with than average women?

Pierce Manhammer

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It’s allegory to this famous photo, the thousand yard stare:

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A soldier that has seen it all, a thousand yards is the maximum effective range of a well handled M1 Garand rifle carried by the Allies in WW2, chambered in 30-06.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zekko

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Been on a lot of dates recently, and I can definitively say that the attractive women (7-8.5s) were more feminine, submissive, agreeable, easier to impress, pleasant to be around, etc. The 5-7s (mid) were more disagreeable, bitter, and all of them went fvcking nowhere and left a bad taste in my mouth. Looking back, I think it's always been like this.
This is an old theme on this board, and I don't think anyone has refuted it. I always thought the explanation was that the most attractive women have had the most positive experiences with men. Men have treated them very well over the years, so they are naturally more receptive when they meet another one. As I like to put it, "Oh look, another guy to worship me".
 

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I wouldn't say "more attractive" women.

Younger women for sure. They are much much easier than older women.
I agree with this. Younger chicks are much easier and not so masculine/jaded like older ones.

That being said, you have to be careful with the young ones too. Many are drunk on the attention they get online and in the real world. Many have been smashed by Tyrone, passed around and have mental health issues.
 

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It’s allegory to this famous photo, the thousand yard stare:

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A soldier that has seen it all, a thousand yards is the maximum effective range of a well handled M1 Garand rifle carried by the Allies in WW2, chambered in 30-06.
The analogy for a woman who has taken too many c0cks is the "thousand c0ck stare" :rofl:
 

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No. My GF literally gets stopped on the street & gets compliments. She’s been pretty her whole life and is a ‘princess’. Less attractive woman are easier to deal with.
Let me clarify. Initially, more attractive women sre often super nice. Like most Chads. However. Once in a relationship, I’ve found most very attractive women are used to being treated as special, and expect that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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