"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does anyone else do this?

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08aisaac

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Does anyone here go for the really hard to get chicks?

For soem reason, if a girl is easy, or dumb, ditzy, annoying, irritating, flirty, not a challenge, or not worth my effort, I won't go for them.

What I mean is that I go for the absolute most confusing girls that I know. They are a complex, surrounded by an enigma.

I play the game, for the sake of playing the game, and for a challenge, and I don' care if I don't get the girl, though I will enevitably get any girl, I just want the hardest girl I can find.

Is anyone else like this, and in result, not focused on really hooking up, but just for the chase?

It seems to work well, if you can keep in the train of thought.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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yeah... i do that sometimes...

i usually go for the girls w/ boyfriends... like... i was getting tired of hanging out with my bestfriend-girl... I talking w/ another girl... but when my bestfriend-girl got a boyfriend.. the next week later i started liking her and trying to get with her too.

what's good about that is... once you get them, they'll be too hard for other people to try to get... so people won't really try.
 
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The chase is FUN! It's thrilling.

I always want to settle down, but once I do, I realize I could be out with someone finer and better.
 
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in high school, all i did was chase the hard to get girls. i was the challenge, the excitment and return pleasure that kept me at them.

yeah all those easy to get girls was like not worth my time.
 
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