"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Does anyone else do this?

08aisaac

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Does anyone here go for the really hard to get chicks?

For soem reason, if a girl is easy, or dumb, ditzy, annoying, irritating, flirty, not a challenge, or not worth my effort, I won't go for them.

What I mean is that I go for the absolute most confusing girls that I know. They are a complex, surrounded by an enigma.

I play the game, for the sake of playing the game, and for a challenge, and I don' care if I don't get the girl, though I will enevitably get any girl, I just want the hardest girl I can find.

Is anyone else like this, and in result, not focused on really hooking up, but just for the chase?

It seems to work well, if you can keep in the train of thought.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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yeah... i do that sometimes...

i usually go for the girls w/ boyfriends... like... i was getting tired of hanging out with my bestfriend-girl... I talking w/ another girl... but when my bestfriend-girl got a boyfriend.. the next week later i started liking her and trying to get with her too.

what's good about that is... once you get them, they'll be too hard for other people to try to get... so people won't really try.
 

AC/DC

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The chase is FUN! It's thrilling.

I always want to settle down, but once I do, I realize I could be out with someone finer and better.
 

Evangenlion

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in high school, all i did was chase the hard to get girls. i was the challenge, the excitment and return pleasure that kept me at them.

yeah all those easy to get girls was like not worth my time.
 
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