"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does anyone else do this?

08aisaac

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Does anyone here go for the really hard to get chicks?

For soem reason, if a girl is easy, or dumb, ditzy, annoying, irritating, flirty, not a challenge, or not worth my effort, I won't go for them.

What I mean is that I go for the absolute most confusing girls that I know. They are a complex, surrounded by an enigma.

I play the game, for the sake of playing the game, and for a challenge, and I don' care if I don't get the girl, though I will enevitably get any girl, I just want the hardest girl I can find.

Is anyone else like this, and in result, not focused on really hooking up, but just for the chase?

It seems to work well, if you can keep in the train of thought.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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yeah... i do that sometimes...

i usually go for the girls w/ boyfriends... like... i was getting tired of hanging out with my bestfriend-girl... I talking w/ another girl... but when my bestfriend-girl got a boyfriend.. the next week later i started liking her and trying to get with her too.

what's good about that is... once you get them, they'll be too hard for other people to try to get... so people won't really try.
 

AC/DC

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The chase is FUN! It's thrilling.

I always want to settle down, but once I do, I realize I could be out with someone finer and better.
 

Evangenlion

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in high school, all i did was chase the hard to get girls. i was the challenge, the excitment and return pleasure that kept me at them.

yeah all those easy to get girls was like not worth my time.
 
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