"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does anybody have experience with girls who want to escalate themselves

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At first I tought it was just a single case then realize tat many girls like to escalate themselves while are somehow turning off when its the guy doing it.

Im really aggressive when it comes of courting and escalate which is a major problem while dealing with this kind of girls (which till now happened to be among the hottest kind).

I can clearly recall that many times at the club while I was stunned from the alchool and regrouping my strenght those girls started kissing and touching, only to somehow "drag" when it was me to take over.

I wish all girls were the type which wants to be conquered by boldness, you cannot imagine how much I like to take by power what they want to give already.

So just wondering if anybody is familiar with the case.

ps. excuse my poor english today and errors, but puked all night and still in hangover, sucked even at cod 10min ago..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Interesting topic! At first I didn't understand what you're talking about. But yeah, I completely agree with you. It feels so great to boldly assert yourself to a woman who is showing interest. Maybe for the hottest girls this is sort of a final **** test: can you really handle this puzzy?? If she initiated the making out, I would take a hard line here: my way or the highway, demonstrating high value and other options. Make your move and if she rejects your boldness, simply back off and go do something else. If she doesn't try to stop you from leaving it was over anyway.
 

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If a girl is making things easy for me, all the better. I'm not doing to complain.

Not sure what you mean by "drag." I've dealt with these agressive types before. At the end of the day, though, it's still up to the man to take things to the next level. For example, pulling back when she's all over you at the club and then grabbing her and taking her back to yours or hers.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Yes, mostly damaged women and in extreme cases sexual abuse victims. They only like sex when they're in total control, and they only like you when you're a challenge.
So which way to proceed do you suggest? Im kinda new to this kind of girls.

I mean tactically, for example at the club not strategically to settle dates, I can get the dates thanks to their jealousy but lack the final shot once tipsy later on at the club.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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