"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Does anybody have experience with girls who want to escalate themselves

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At first I tought it was just a single case then realize tat many girls like to escalate themselves while are somehow turning off when its the guy doing it.

Im really aggressive when it comes of courting and escalate which is a major problem while dealing with this kind of girls (which till now happened to be among the hottest kind).

I can clearly recall that many times at the club while I was stunned from the alchool and regrouping my strenght those girls started kissing and touching, only to somehow "drag" when it was me to take over.

I wish all girls were the type which wants to be conquered by boldness, you cannot imagine how much I like to take by power what they want to give already.

So just wondering if anybody is familiar with the case.

ps. excuse my poor english today and errors, but puked all night and still in hangover, sucked even at cod 10min ago..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Interesting topic! At first I didn't understand what you're talking about. But yeah, I completely agree with you. It feels so great to boldly assert yourself to a woman who is showing interest. Maybe for the hottest girls this is sort of a final **** test: can you really handle this puzzy?? If she initiated the making out, I would take a hard line here: my way or the highway, demonstrating high value and other options. Make your move and if she rejects your boldness, simply back off and go do something else. If she doesn't try to stop you from leaving it was over anyway.
 

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If a girl is making things easy for me, all the better. I'm not doing to complain.

Not sure what you mean by "drag." I've dealt with these agressive types before. At the end of the day, though, it's still up to the man to take things to the next level. For example, pulling back when she's all over you at the club and then grabbing her and taking her back to yours or hers.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Yes, mostly damaged women and in extreme cases sexual abuse victims. They only like sex when they're in total control, and they only like you when you're a challenge.
So which way to proceed do you suggest? Im kinda new to this kind of girls.

I mean tactically, for example at the club not strategically to settle dates, I can get the dates thanks to their jealousy but lack the final shot once tipsy later on at the club.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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