"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does anybody have experience with girls who want to escalate themselves

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At first I tought it was just a single case then realize tat many girls like to escalate themselves while are somehow turning off when its the guy doing it.

Im really aggressive when it comes of courting and escalate which is a major problem while dealing with this kind of girls (which till now happened to be among the hottest kind).

I can clearly recall that many times at the club while I was stunned from the alchool and regrouping my strenght those girls started kissing and touching, only to somehow "drag" when it was me to take over.

I wish all girls were the type which wants to be conquered by boldness, you cannot imagine how much I like to take by power what they want to give already.

So just wondering if anybody is familiar with the case.

ps. excuse my poor english today and errors, but puked all night and still in hangover, sucked even at cod 10min ago..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interesting topic! At first I didn't understand what you're talking about. But yeah, I completely agree with you. It feels so great to boldly assert yourself to a woman who is showing interest. Maybe for the hottest girls this is sort of a final **** test: can you really handle this puzzy?? If she initiated the making out, I would take a hard line here: my way or the highway, demonstrating high value and other options. Make your move and if she rejects your boldness, simply back off and go do something else. If she doesn't try to stop you from leaving it was over anyway.
 

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If a girl is making things easy for me, all the better. I'm not doing to complain.

Not sure what you mean by "drag." I've dealt with these agressive types before. At the end of the day, though, it's still up to the man to take things to the next level. For example, pulling back when she's all over you at the club and then grabbing her and taking her back to yours or hers.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Yes, mostly damaged women and in extreme cases sexual abuse victims. They only like sex when they're in total control, and they only like you when you're a challenge.
So which way to proceed do you suggest? Im kinda new to this kind of girls.

I mean tactically, for example at the club not strategically to settle dates, I can get the dates thanks to their jealousy but lack the final shot once tipsy later on at the club.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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