"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Does age matter ?

TuPLaD

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I was coming from school today, in the tram (it was 35°), and I saw those 2 cuuuuteeeeee chicks entering the tram - me & my mates(17-19) were like "Holy Crap !", both are 9 on my scale.

Well, I'm only 15(not yet) - I chickened out to go to the girls, they were like 17-18 and im only 15(look like 19).

My mates also chickened out - what could I do in that situation :woo: ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Go for it! I'm 16 and I'm approaching 17-18 year old girls. If they say anything about your age just say either something along the lines that you don't have enough time and how it would be a waste of time to be with a girl who is too insecure about her age and that you might as well go find another. Let us know if this helps.
 

Vincent

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No, age does not matter as long as you're confident.
 

NRM

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It shouldn't matter. You shouldn't have to state it. When girls ask me my age, I end up asking them "How old do you think I am?" and then telling them "Good guess!" and "I didn't say you were right, I said good guess." Usually end up saying somewhere between 12 and 34.

I've dated older women my whole life. From a year older to 7 years older. Some knew, some didn't, most didn't care, I didn't care.

But if this is back in high school, it'll depend on what will look socially acceptable. High school is one of those places. It will definitely be harder if you're in one of those places where senior girls would look weird with freshman guys. But no one says you can't pull it off.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TuPLaD

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Thx alot.
 

Anomalous

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Does age matter?

HELL NO. I was just macking on this like 22 year old in front of her boyfriend. IT was awsome (she wanted me).
 
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