"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does age matter ?

TuPLaD

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I was coming from school today, in the tram (it was 35°), and I saw those 2 cuuuuteeeeee chicks entering the tram - me & my mates(17-19) were like "Holy Crap !", both are 9 on my scale.

Well, I'm only 15(not yet) - I chickened out to go to the girls, they were like 17-18 and im only 15(look like 19).

My mates also chickened out - what could I do in that situation :woo: ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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speakerbox

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Go for it! I'm 16 and I'm approaching 17-18 year old girls. If they say anything about your age just say either something along the lines that you don't have enough time and how it would be a waste of time to be with a girl who is too insecure about her age and that you might as well go find another. Let us know if this helps.
 

Vincent

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No, age does not matter as long as you're confident.
 

NRM

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It shouldn't matter. You shouldn't have to state it. When girls ask me my age, I end up asking them "How old do you think I am?" and then telling them "Good guess!" and "I didn't say you were right, I said good guess." Usually end up saying somewhere between 12 and 34.

I've dated older women my whole life. From a year older to 7 years older. Some knew, some didn't, most didn't care, I didn't care.

But if this is back in high school, it'll depend on what will look socially acceptable. High school is one of those places. It will definitely be harder if you're in one of those places where senior girls would look weird with freshman guys. But no one says you can't pull it off.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TuPLaD

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Thx alot.
 

Anomalous

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Does age matter?

HELL NO. I was just macking on this like 22 year old in front of her boyfriend. IT was awsome (she wanted me).
 
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