"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does age matter ?

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I was coming from school today, in the tram (it was 35°), and I saw those 2 cuuuuteeeeee chicks entering the tram - me & my mates(17-19) were like "Holy Crap !", both are 9 on my scale.

Well, I'm only 15(not yet) - I chickened out to go to the girls, they were like 17-18 and im only 15(look like 19).

My mates also chickened out - what could I do in that situation :woo: ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Go for it! I'm 16 and I'm approaching 17-18 year old girls. If they say anything about your age just say either something along the lines that you don't have enough time and how it would be a waste of time to be with a girl who is too insecure about her age and that you might as well go find another. Let us know if this helps.
 
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No, age does not matter as long as you're confident.
 
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It shouldn't matter. You shouldn't have to state it. When girls ask me my age, I end up asking them "How old do you think I am?" and then telling them "Good guess!" and "I didn't say you were right, I said good guess." Usually end up saying somewhere between 12 and 34.

I've dated older women my whole life. From a year older to 7 years older. Some knew, some didn't, most didn't care, I didn't care.

But if this is back in high school, it'll depend on what will look socially acceptable. High school is one of those places. It will definitely be harder if you're in one of those places where senior girls would look weird with freshman guys. But no one says you can't pull it off.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thx alot.
 
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Does age matter?

HELL NO. I was just macking on this like 22 year old in front of her boyfriend. IT was awsome (she wanted me).
 
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