"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Does a woman tell you the truth when you ask her who she would rather sleep with?

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Let's say you are playing a game, where you can say the name of two guys you both know, and you ask her who she would rather sleep with?

How reliable will her answer be?

This should not fall under "attraction isn't a choice", since she is actually saying who she is attracted to, and not who she would want to be attracted to.

BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Please don't play this game when involves people you know. Do it with celebrities...
 

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Her answers are going to be complete BS... if its 2 people you both know, she will opt for you.. if your her BF.. if its Celebs she may open up and say yeah id ride Brad Pitt... I used to do that all the time when i was in HS and years later i caught up with my old HS gf and we talked awhile and joked about things and she said she used to hate it when i would bring that kind of stuff up
 
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Why dont you say to her.. "Hey lets play russian roulette! I'll be first!"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Harvey101
Let's say you are playing a game, where you can say the name of two guys you both know, and you ask her who she would rather sleep with?

How reliable will her answer be?

This should not fall under "attraction isn't a choice", since she is actually saying who she is attracted to, and not who she would want to be attracted to.

BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it.
If she has no attraction for you, then her answer will probably be reliable.
 

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why don't you just borrow a pair of her panties, you can both strip down, get in a pillow fight and then watch Legally Blonde while sharing a pint of Haggen-Daz. Jesus man do you want to bone this chick or be her buddy?
 

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yeah, above post hits the mark. Her reply to the question is irrelevant, because the question is irrelevant.

Assume that you the person she wants to sleep with, and who the hell cares what she thinks of other guys?
 

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Then Sleep with her and you'll find out that she sleeps with you. As simple as that.
 

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What a weird game to play, if your trying to hook up with a chick why would you ask her who she wants to sleep with if it's not you? If you dont want to sleep with her it is still a weird game.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Didn't none of you idiots read the first post? It clearly says "BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it." so NO i do not want to fcuk any of the girls I ask these kind of questions.
 

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Originally posted by Harvey101
Didn't none of you idiots read the first post? It clearly says "BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it." so NO i do not want to fcuk any of the girls I ask these kind of questions.
Then why do you care? :confused:
 

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Because it gives me a good knowledge of what girls are attracted to when it comes to sex.
 
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