"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does a woman tell you the truth when you ask her who she would rather sleep with?

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Let's say you are playing a game, where you can say the name of two guys you both know, and you ask her who she would rather sleep with?

How reliable will her answer be?

This should not fall under "attraction isn't a choice", since she is actually saying who she is attracted to, and not who she would want to be attracted to.

BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Please don't play this game when involves people you know. Do it with celebrities...
 
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Her answers are going to be complete BS... if its 2 people you both know, she will opt for you.. if your her BF.. if its Celebs she may open up and say yeah id ride Brad Pitt... I used to do that all the time when i was in HS and years later i caught up with my old HS gf and we talked awhile and joked about things and she said she used to hate it when i would bring that kind of stuff up
 
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Why dont you say to her.. "Hey lets play russian roulette! I'll be first!"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Harvey101
Let's say you are playing a game, where you can say the name of two guys you both know, and you ask her who she would rather sleep with?

How reliable will her answer be?

This should not fall under "attraction isn't a choice", since she is actually saying who she is attracted to, and not who she would want to be attracted to.

BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it.
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If she has no attraction for you, then her answer will probably be reliable.
 
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why don't you just borrow a pair of her panties, you can both strip down, get in a pillow fight and then watch Legally Blonde while sharing a pint of Haggen-Daz. Jesus man do you want to bone this chick or be her buddy?
 
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yeah, above post hits the mark. Her reply to the question is irrelevant, because the question is irrelevant.

Assume that you the person she wants to sleep with, and who the hell cares what she thinks of other guys?
 
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Then Sleep with her and you'll find out that she sleeps with you. As simple as that.
 
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What a weird game to play, if your trying to hook up with a chick why would you ask her who she wants to sleep with if it's not you? If you dont want to sleep with her it is still a weird game.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Didn't none of you idiots read the first post? It clearly says "BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it." so NO i do not want to fcuk any of the girls I ask these kind of questions.
 
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Originally posted by Harvey101
Didn't none of you idiots read the first post? It clearly says "BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it." so NO i do not want to fcuk any of the girls I ask these kind of questions.
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Then why do you care? :confused:
 
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Because it gives me a good knowledge of what girls are attracted to when it comes to sex.
 
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