"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does a woman tell you the truth when you ask her who she would rather sleep with?

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Let's say you are playing a game, where you can say the name of two guys you both know, and you ask her who she would rather sleep with?

How reliable will her answer be?

This should not fall under "attraction isn't a choice", since she is actually saying who she is attracted to, and not who she would want to be attracted to.

BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Please don't play this game when involves people you know. Do it with celebrities...
 

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Her answers are going to be complete BS... if its 2 people you both know, she will opt for you.. if your her BF.. if its Celebs she may open up and say yeah id ride Brad Pitt... I used to do that all the time when i was in HS and years later i caught up with my old HS gf and we talked awhile and joked about things and she said she used to hate it when i would bring that kind of stuff up
 
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Why dont you say to her.. "Hey lets play russian roulette! I'll be first!"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Harvey101
Let's say you are playing a game, where you can say the name of two guys you both know, and you ask her who she would rather sleep with?

How reliable will her answer be?

This should not fall under "attraction isn't a choice", since she is actually saying who she is attracted to, and not who she would want to be attracted to.

BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it.
If she has no attraction for you, then her answer will probably be reliable.
 

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why don't you just borrow a pair of her panties, you can both strip down, get in a pillow fight and then watch Legally Blonde while sharing a pint of Haggen-Daz. Jesus man do you want to bone this chick or be her buddy?
 

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yeah, above post hits the mark. Her reply to the question is irrelevant, because the question is irrelevant.

Assume that you the person she wants to sleep with, and who the hell cares what she thinks of other guys?
 

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Then Sleep with her and you'll find out that she sleeps with you. As simple as that.
 

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What a weird game to play, if your trying to hook up with a chick why would you ask her who she wants to sleep with if it's not you? If you dont want to sleep with her it is still a weird game.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Didn't none of you idiots read the first post? It clearly says "BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it." so NO i do not want to fcuk any of the girls I ask these kind of questions.
 

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Originally posted by Harvey101
Didn't none of you idiots read the first post? It clearly says "BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it." so NO i do not want to fcuk any of the girls I ask these kind of questions.
Then why do you care? :confused:
 

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Because it gives me a good knowledge of what girls are attracted to when it comes to sex.
 
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