Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Does a woman tell you the truth when you ask her who she would rather sleep with?

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Let's say you are playing a game, where you can say the name of two guys you both know, and you ask her who she would rather sleep with?

How reliable will her answer be?

This should not fall under "attraction isn't a choice", since she is actually saying who she is attracted to, and not who she would want to be attracted to.

BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Please don't play this game when involves people you know. Do it with celebrities...
 

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Her answers are going to be complete BS... if its 2 people you both know, she will opt for you.. if your her BF.. if its Celebs she may open up and say yeah id ride Brad Pitt... I used to do that all the time when i was in HS and years later i caught up with my old HS gf and we talked awhile and joked about things and she said she used to hate it when i would bring that kind of stuff up
 
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Why dont you say to her.. "Hey lets play russian roulette! I'll be first!"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Harvey101
Let's say you are playing a game, where you can say the name of two guys you both know, and you ask her who she would rather sleep with?

How reliable will her answer be?

This should not fall under "attraction isn't a choice", since she is actually saying who she is attracted to, and not who she would want to be attracted to.

BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it.
If she has no attraction for you, then her answer will probably be reliable.
 

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why don't you just borrow a pair of her panties, you can both strip down, get in a pillow fight and then watch Legally Blonde while sharing a pint of Haggen-Daz. Jesus man do you want to bone this chick or be her buddy?
 

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yeah, above post hits the mark. Her reply to the question is irrelevant, because the question is irrelevant.

Assume that you the person she wants to sleep with, and who the hell cares what she thinks of other guys?
 

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Then Sleep with her and you'll find out that she sleeps with you. As simple as that.
 

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What a weird game to play, if your trying to hook up with a chick why would you ask her who she wants to sleep with if it's not you? If you dont want to sleep with her it is still a weird game.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Didn't none of you idiots read the first post? It clearly says "BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it." so NO i do not want to fcuk any of the girls I ask these kind of questions.
 

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Originally posted by Harvey101
Didn't none of you idiots read the first post? It clearly says "BTW, the woman you are asking is just a friend, and she knows it." so NO i do not want to fcuk any of the girls I ask these kind of questions.
Then why do you care? :confused:
 

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Because it gives me a good knowledge of what girls are attracted to when it comes to sex.
 
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