"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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does a dj wait for sex?

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If a girl who you start dating says that she wants to wait a few weeks before you have sex together, is a dj supposed to say "yes thats ok, i'll wait until you are ready".

Or is a dj supposed to say "no, i got other girls that want to bang me , so i'm not going to wait around for you".

because i always thought that if a girl likes you, she'll have sex with you. I don't have patience to wait for her to feel comfortable with me. At the same time if i really like the girl, I'm going to be tempted to wait with her until she is ready to have sex.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A DJ does what he wants without caring what the rules are.
 
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Added to the above point.

Patience is a virtue a DJ culitvates.

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Sure a DJ can wait for sex if you really like this girl, but go for other girls on the side. It's not cheating if you and her are not in a committed relationship. Kinda put this girl on the backburner, but still treat her the way you have been.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Personally i'm just in it for the sex.I just move on..
 
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There are two schools of thought on this.

One is that the girl who wants to wait has self respect and is possibly looking for a realtionship rather than a "quickie".

The second is that she's trying to manipulate you into spending piles of cash on her without letting you hit it.

Only you know which girl it is.
 
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A DJ doesnt wait for sex.


Sex waits for a DJ! :rockon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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don't pay attention to it....she is just trying to justify to her self, that she made an effort to resest.....I personaly would wait a few dates, but not too long.
 
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You should be having sex with a few other girls anyway so that you're not waiting for sex but waiting for HER sex which doesn't matter cause you're getting laid no matter what.
 
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