"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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does a dj wait for sex?

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If a girl who you start dating says that she wants to wait a few weeks before you have sex together, is a dj supposed to say "yes thats ok, i'll wait until you are ready".

Or is a dj supposed to say "no, i got other girls that want to bang me , so i'm not going to wait around for you".

because i always thought that if a girl likes you, she'll have sex with you. I don't have patience to wait for her to feel comfortable with me. At the same time if i really like the girl, I'm going to be tempted to wait with her until she is ready to have sex.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A DJ does what he wants without caring what the rules are.
 
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Added to the above point.

Patience is a virtue a DJ culitvates.

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Sure a DJ can wait for sex if you really like this girl, but go for other girls on the side. It's not cheating if you and her are not in a committed relationship. Kinda put this girl on the backburner, but still treat her the way you have been.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Personally i'm just in it for the sex.I just move on..
 
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There are two schools of thought on this.

One is that the girl who wants to wait has self respect and is possibly looking for a realtionship rather than a "quickie".

The second is that she's trying to manipulate you into spending piles of cash on her without letting you hit it.

Only you know which girl it is.
 
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A DJ doesnt wait for sex.


Sex waits for a DJ! :rockon:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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don't pay attention to it....she is just trying to justify to her self, that she made an effort to resest.....I personaly would wait a few dates, but not too long.
 
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You should be having sex with a few other girls anyway so that you're not waiting for sex but waiting for HER sex which doesn't matter cause you're getting laid no matter what.
 
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