"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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does a dj wait for sex?

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If a girl who you start dating says that she wants to wait a few weeks before you have sex together, is a dj supposed to say "yes thats ok, i'll wait until you are ready".

Or is a dj supposed to say "no, i got other girls that want to bang me , so i'm not going to wait around for you".

because i always thought that if a girl likes you, she'll have sex with you. I don't have patience to wait for her to feel comfortable with me. At the same time if i really like the girl, I'm going to be tempted to wait with her until she is ready to have sex.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A DJ does what he wants without caring what the rules are.
 
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Added to the above point.

Patience is a virtue a DJ culitvates.

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Sure a DJ can wait for sex if you really like this girl, but go for other girls on the side. It's not cheating if you and her are not in a committed relationship. Kinda put this girl on the backburner, but still treat her the way you have been.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Personally i'm just in it for the sex.I just move on..
 
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There are two schools of thought on this.

One is that the girl who wants to wait has self respect and is possibly looking for a realtionship rather than a "quickie".

The second is that she's trying to manipulate you into spending piles of cash on her without letting you hit it.

Only you know which girl it is.
 
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A DJ doesnt wait for sex.


Sex waits for a DJ! :rockon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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don't pay attention to it....she is just trying to justify to her self, that she made an effort to resest.....I personaly would wait a few dates, but not too long.
 
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You should be having sex with a few other girls anyway so that you're not waiting for sex but waiting for HER sex which doesn't matter cause you're getting laid no matter what.
 
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