Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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does a dj wait for sex?

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If a girl who you start dating says that she wants to wait a few weeks before you have sex together, is a dj supposed to say "yes thats ok, i'll wait until you are ready".

Or is a dj supposed to say "no, i got other girls that want to bang me , so i'm not going to wait around for you".

because i always thought that if a girl likes you, she'll have sex with you. I don't have patience to wait for her to feel comfortable with me. At the same time if i really like the girl, I'm going to be tempted to wait with her until she is ready to have sex.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A DJ does what he wants without caring what the rules are.
 
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Added to the above point.

Patience is a virtue a DJ culitvates.

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Sure a DJ can wait for sex if you really like this girl, but go for other girls on the side. It's not cheating if you and her are not in a committed relationship. Kinda put this girl on the backburner, but still treat her the way you have been.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Personally i'm just in it for the sex.I just move on..
 
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There are two schools of thought on this.

One is that the girl who wants to wait has self respect and is possibly looking for a realtionship rather than a "quickie".

The second is that she's trying to manipulate you into spending piles of cash on her without letting you hit it.

Only you know which girl it is.
 
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A DJ doesnt wait for sex.


Sex waits for a DJ! :rockon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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don't pay attention to it....she is just trying to justify to her self, that she made an effort to resest.....I personaly would wait a few dates, but not too long.
 
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You should be having sex with a few other girls anyway so that you're not waiting for sex but waiting for HER sex which doesn't matter cause you're getting laid no matter what.
 
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