"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Docs - The most inspirational post ever.

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I read inspiration posts daily, and they are alright, but they tell the same story. Be the man, Just do it, etc. This will change those posts forever.


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The only inspiration you should need is seeing yourself with your goals.

Just think for a minute, beside the girl of your dreams, or having your house and car, or amassing a lot of investments, or even seeing yourself getting a phone number, making an impression on the boss, or even trying your best at what you do every single day.

If you can't see yourself up there, and won't bother to at least try, then you are of absolute failure to yourself, to the world, and a failure to the dreams you won't even start.

Are you going to try and possibly fall, or not even bother at all and always fall?

:woo:
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There's not really a lot left to say on motivation. People's inner voices need to stop being such whiny little bi'tches, shut up, and let themselves just do it.

The way you think is a tool, it's not "truth". If a thought isn't useful, change it. It'll resist at first, but keep in mind the difference between how you are and how you want to be and your unconscious mind will bring you up to speed soon enough. Persistance is the key. Motivational posts often take a logical approach, which is useful for showing you that you have a problem perhaps, but it doesn't change the root belief because beliefs don't work logically. You have to put a little more work on it. NLP is awesome for that.

For a whiny little bi'tches, the best phrase to remember and use is "fu'ck it". Life isn't so damn serious anyway! (Think this when it helps you. When it doesn't help you, don't think it. That's the great thing about the mind... you can think ANYTHING. Even opposing things).

"There's no such thing as failure". I have an affirmation: "whatever I do, I accept myself fully and completely". I think that whenever I feel shame about something I've done or am worried how I'll look when I do something. You might think that the threat of not accepting yourself is useful for motivation, but I find that all it does is make you scared of failure. You need to be happy about who you are now to improve. (Well anyway it'll make you happier :D)

Krassus had some awesome posts on motivation. In the end, it all comes down to fear.

Fear sucks. It really, really sucks. Conquering it is one of the most important things you can do in life.

Krassus on Fear
 
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