When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Excellent, and how to pick up 20y/o babes I hope.Originally posted by Matt Rogers
I think Doc love's system is good-although it is slightly more focused towards the older man.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That was very well put. The System isn't a pick up guide, it's just a book of insights into how women behave and how to equalize the playing field while saving you a lot of heartache.Originally posted by MisterAl
The System is gold when you use it properly. Francisco is right on. It's really for qualifying chicks and keeping the good ones and weeding out the bad ones fast. You still have to find the girls.
Whether dating or in an LTR, when I fuk up it's because I got lazy and deviated from Doc's advice. On the other hand, it's working perfectly when the crazies and b!tches disappear without making me wasting another dime or minute on them.
My guess is that you would consider The System a complete waste of your money. It's not a pick-up guide or for getting quick snatch.
So out of curiosity, what are the three qualities that should be used to qualify a woman?Originally posted by MrBond_Age
Its a complete waste of your money when you actually pay for it. Remember what I said:" Ive seen the material but didnt pay for it".
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
-NopeOriginally posted by MrBond_Age
mmmm.
Putting the BS aside Id say:
-Her apearance
-Her behaviors
-Her group of friends and family.
So you wanted to lecture you on what I read and not my opinion?Well wathever.If you actually bought what could loosly be called dating material (read: dating BS) then I pity you.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
-Nope
-Kinda, but not specific enough...
- and NOPE....
C'mon, supposedly had seen this information online....
FYI guys, Doc Love does not post any specifics about The System in any of his articles. This is probably why most of you have no clue what is actually contained in The System, he only briefly alludes to the concepts.
Now I'm not sure I should post the three KEY things that you should use when qualifying. Maybe you guys should just drop a C-note....![]()
Oh, look who's backtracking. So if it was just your opinion, why did you say that YOU HAVE READ what is in The System online? I called you out because I didn't think that you have read any of it but I was going to give you the benifit of the doubt. I guess I was right.Originally posted by MrBond_Age
So you wanted to lecture you on what I read and not my opinion?Well wathever.If you actually bought what could loosly be called dating material (read: dating BS) then I pity you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.